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thread: for the early days

tessakin

there's a particular kind of attention that belongs only to the early days. everything is still being discovered. you don't know yet what you're building. only that you want to keep showing up.

thread is for that window.

one question at a time. you answer privately. they answer privately. neither of you sees the other's answer until you've both submitted. then it reveals, together.

the questions are designed for the early days: what draws you toward connection, how you give and receive care, what you're hoping for, what you're learning about yourself by being here. the things that don't come up in the normal flow of conversation, even when you're talking every day.

thread isn't a test. it's not designed to help you decide anything. it's designed to help you be known, and to know the other person in the particular way that only happens when both people answer the same question at the same time, without knowing what the other said.

you go at your own pace. one question, whenever you're both ready. no pressure to advance until you want to.

something to sit with

what do you want this person to know about you that you haven't found the right moment to say?