the poly community has built some of the most thoughtful relationship-design tools in existence. the relationship anarchy smorgasbord. the non-escalator menu. multiamory's radar. all of them are pdfs. groundwork is where those ideas become interactive: guided experiences you do with the people you're building with, from the beginning of something new to the long rhythm of staying close, to repair when something breaks.
the research, the lineage, the gap, and what tessakin builds to close it.
read the essay →the beginning
the rhythm
daily · romantic kin
one question a day, answered apart, revealed together.
weekly · any kin
the practice of noticing what went right.
recurring · romantic kin
a monthly practice for the relationship you're building.
going deeper
on demand · romantic kin
going deeper when you're both ready.
multi-date · 2-4 people
six dates for discovering whether the spark has roots.
repair
the archive
the archive of everything you've built. every pulse, glimmer, ember, sounding, and tending. visible when you need it.